Take Everything Personally And Always Be Offended

There are just some people who go through life, take everything personally and get offended. Instead of allowing themselves to live their lives in harmony and respect with others, they choose to “stand with their backs to the wall” almost every time.

Is it because the world is always against them? No. What happens is that in the subtle, yet complex world of emotions and personality, there are some people who have a constant habit of being offended.

Instead of seeing these people as problems that should be avoided, we need to understand what is going on inside them.

Hypersensitivity, low self-esteem and lack of psychological resources create thought patterns that are too rigid.

Every word, every action or gesture is interpreted as an attack. This is where the essence of the problem lies. This lower self sees problems where there is none and prejudices where they do not exist.

Some personalities see storms when the sun is shining. Let’s take a closer look at this.

Violated and offended 24 hours a day, 7 days a week

“I can not even talk to you.” “You are offended by everything.” “You are impossible, you go from bad to worse.”

If you’ve ever heard of any of these things before, they’ve probably made you feel terrible. But these words carry a certain truth.

Communication

If the people around us have trouble interacting with us, it’s because something’s wrong. If they do not feel comfortable, or there are frequent problems with incorrect communication, it is important to understand why.

• Instead of thinking “everyone hates me”, remember the importance of taking a moment to reflect deeply on the situation.

• We have to peel the layers of the onion that surround us to find out what is going on inside.

Below you will discover what goes on in a person who constantly takes everything personally and feels offended.

It is your expectations, not other people, that offend you

Maybe you have high expectations that are not met in reality. In a way, we all have an idea of ​​how we think others should act, how they should treat us, and how they should respond to things.

First, we must point out that the following measures do not fully cover every situation. Let’s look at why.

• All you need to know is how you want others to treat you. You deserve respect and must demand it. Everyone has this need.

• What other people do is not your responsibility. Everyone is free to choose what they want and to act as they wish, as long as there is some mutual respect.
• If we are obsessed with how our partner acts, what our friends do, it can only end badly for us.

To achieve calm and more inner balance, keep this in mind: do not expect anything from anyone, only set expectations for yourself.

The world is not against you: it is you who need to harmonize with the world.

Those who live their lives constantly insulted can be compared to a tree trunk. To understand this, imagine the following:

• Imagine you are a tree next to an ocean. The water comes and goes. Sometimes the wind is gentle and sometimes it is intense. Some days the sea caresses you, and some days it will shake you with a storm.

• If you are a really solid and strong tree, the oceans, the waves, and the elements will knock you over. In this scenario, the strength and stiffness of the wood will symbolize our stubbornness that can be so devastating to us.
• But if you are like the supple bamboo branch, you will sway with the wind, and even the fiercest storms will never be able to exterminate you. It is because you adapt and do not stand like a wall that you can take the blows.

Going through life constantly insulting hurts ourselves the most

• Those who are easily offended create mistrust.
• If you live your life always offended, your loved ones will stop feeling good around you, and will start avoiding you.

• If you only take action when they offer kind words, you will create distancing.

Love yourself a little more and stop the noise from obsessions

The world does not hate you. No one is against you. Do not look for things to be offended when there is no one or look for bad intentions when there are none.

• Those who do not love themselves become demanding towards others. They are waiting, above all, to offer them what they do not offer others: love, respect and appreciation.
• If we do not begin to work on ourselves internally, our darkest depths will not come to the surface until our whole reality becomes a living hell.

It’s just not worth it. So say no to unnecessary suffering and do not add gasoline to a bonfire. Start healing your wounds and give yourself the love you need.

Only when someone loves themselves enough will the world begin to improve them.